Do you really have a lot of chemistry and intense passion or is this person just a reflection of your past traumas and wounds?
Being in your feminine does not mean you can’t be rich.
I might be in my feminine but I still want to make more money than any man I know.
There are plenty men who make a lot more than them anyway.
The difference is I don’t care to compete or advertise or prove myself to other guys- where as when I was in my masculine. I absolutely did. But that was not the way. There’s no happiness in that either and me having been in both energies, can and will say that.
Being in your feminine not only makes you so much more confident- but makes life so much easier when you’re in a male dominated niche. And that’s really the absolute difference. Let’s look at femininity a different way, since there are a million views on the internet about what femininity is.
Being educated, elegant, soft, strategic, in control, and un-apologetically you. Being a presence when you walk into any room. Having boundaries, setting standards. Having everyone’s respect. Never action out of character. Doing what you love. Being unbothered. That’s so sexy.
You don’t have to be a career woman. You can also be a stay at home mom/wife. The difference is you are living your truth. The life YOU want to live that fulfills YOU. A lot of people, men and women, lie to themselves about what they want and how they feel. They ignore the negative feelings instead of addressing them. And those feelings make ALL the difference. They tell you that something is NOT right.
Femininity is being your best most aligned version of yourself. Being completely in tune with your body, emotions, thoughts. That’s it. Sounds easy but the truth is that a lot of women aren’t in their most natural state. Other women have the look down but don’t carry themselves this way cause they haven’t done the inner work.
Most women try to compete with men and have a chip on their shoulders to prove themselves. When the smart thing to do is to take the dynamic at face value and make smarter moves. You, as a woman, are not meant to struggle. In fact nothing in life should be forced, period. For anyone. We have to do plenty of hard things to voluntarily impose more unnecessary ones.
There’s a huge misconception that being feminine is weakness, or not being smart etc and that’s such a false narrative. I’ve never felt more powerful. Imagine if instead of arguing and complaining and fighting to get your way, all you need to do is bask in your feminine energy. Say very little. Never get out of character etc and get things done. This is the way.
stellula asked:
How can a woman be elegant/classy?
theambitiouswoman answered:
Elegance or classiness, especially for women, often comes down to a combination of attitude, behavior, and your appearance.
Confidence, grace, and poise are the foundation. Being calm, composed, and respectful in various situations reflects elegance.
Speaking clearly, thoughtfully, and kindly, and being a good listener, are signs of class. Avoiding gossip or negative talk is also important.
As far as clothing goes, opt for timeless, well-fitted clothing that suits your body type. Elegance is often associated with simplicity and neatness rather than overly flashy or trendy items.
Good posture and graceful movements can convey elegance. This includes how you walk, sit, and engage in activities.
Good manners never go out of style. Being polite, punctual, and considerate in both personal and professional settings is key.
Taking care of your physical and mental health, through regular exercise, a balanced diet, and proper rest, reflects self-respect and can contribute to a classy demeanor.
Engaging in and talking about meaningful topics, reading, and staying informed can add to one’s elegance. It’s about being well-rounded and having substance.
Classy individuals often stand out for their kindness, empathy, and the ability to make others feel valued and respected.
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